For any strong healthy relationship with partners & lovers, there are some qualities which make the relationship strong. A relationship forms as a bond of trust between eachother and supports each other. There are some skills which help you to create a strong bonding with trust in relationships.
1.Relax optimistically
Having a relax mind about the person with whom you are interested in relationship will help you to build a strong trust and relationship. When you feel comfortable with others, then they will feel comfortable with you. If you are interested in relationship don't be nervous because a nervous person can't achieve his destiny and the partner will easily sense that and they will withdraw from relationships. It is common when we meet a online friend in real world, but have a brighten face which will attract the friend you are meeting and also persons around.
2.Listen deeply
Relaxing your mind and smileing gives a start to build trust with each other but when you listen to the words and messages of your partner then it will create unexplainable joy to the heart of your friend or partner. Share their thoughts by listening to their words. Allow them to speak, In a successful relationship between any two persons there will be a lot of communication and sharing. Before building trust no person will tell their secrets but when you listen to them with heart then they will open their heart wide for accomodating you into that place. Listening creates an emotional feelings to person who is communicating. Friendship and relationships are tied with a bond of emotion not with a bond of appearance. This kind of shareing will come when they feel comfortable and trust on you. To get this relationship and friendship you need to listen carefully.
3.Respond carefully
Emotions create good and also bad. Emotionally motivated persons will do good and wrongs because they relates everything with emotions. When you are emotionally charged choose your words correctly. If you're not correct in your words then the trust you bilt till that moment will shatter into peices which is unrecoverable. So choose your words and emotions carefully.
Showing your emotions without understandig the other person mood will also create problems, so understand the person's mood and needs.
4 Compliment them
Compliment, a small word which does miracle. No one in this world hates compliment because it gives joy to your heart that they appreciate us for our work. Compliment them whenever possible. Appreciating a person is like walking on top of a knife. When you overcompliment them they will think as you are teasing thme rather than appreciating their work, which will back fire you. So compliment them with some limit. Share their joy and sarrows with you also. A response can be encouraging or discouraging, but a limited compliment will encourage others and they get trust on you. Guys you can try with a girl with following words " Hey _____( fill with that person name), You look gerogeous and stunning.", it may be true or false but that girl with whom you are trying will like you. And gals you try the same with guys, guys will follow you and do anything for you people. This is the power of compliment. Each and every person loves compliment.
7. Act Authentically
Authentically means acting with Values.In simple word be yourself.
When you act like yourself you are honest to yourself and also to others which will never make you as wrong rather it gives you respect among others. Say what you can do and do what you say, be a man of words. When you are standing on your words your partner will trust you and your words. Be clear in your relationship, and find what your partner needs from your relationships. This will give you a clear mind rather than a confused mind. when you are clear by your mind you will feel relaxed and comfortable in your relationship.
8. Acknowledge Generously
When you need relationship look positive qualities of others rather than looking bad qualities. Acknowledgement from another person will register that person in brain or mind for a long time. That figure will not forget or dimnish in the mind. Acknowledge them for their good qualities, Don't overlook bad qualities of others. Show your gratitude and encouragement by words and actions to your partner. Encourage them when they are in difficulties, support them when they are in need, These are all some kind of acknowledgeing problems of them and providing hands for help. When heart registers us as we are there for helping at anytime heart never feel dipressed rather it shares its problem like river of flood. Shareing problem comes only after your relationship is builded with strong base and trust.
Good morning,Have a Wonderful day.
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